WHY I THINK TRUE LOVE IS RARE

The question is does true love really exists or is it just a facade in some people's mind and as a fact it really does not exist? The answer to that is so varied. Everyone has got his or her on idea of love. If you meet with someone who has been hurt broken so many times and they even stopped counting you will not hear the word true love. However, if you were to meet with someone who has been in a healthy relationship where their partners loved them and showed it to them, they will definitely say true love surely does exist. Whatever your answer is, true love really exists, and the sad part is that true love is rare. Many people have experienced true love, the only difference is that some of them would not know its true love even if it hit them in the face.

Some get into relationships because of something else other than love. Some people will get into a relationship because of money while others get into a relationship because of the person's look. True love does not look at how the person looks like. It doesn't look at whether the person is a model or a very attractive person. True, no one wants to date someone who does not attract them physically; chances are that if you do not attract the person physically, you will not have a lot of sparks going on in your relationship. However, true love is loving someone as they are. Physical attraction should come much later. However this is not always the case because true love is rare indeed. It is hard to find someone who loves you for who you are and accepts you as you are.

True love is about being there for the person during hard times and good times. However sadly, this is not always the case. When something major happens to a couple, you can actually literally measure how much the two of them loved each other by the way they act. Some people will bolt the first time they spot trouble. There are even experts in the field who can spot trouble brewing long before it actually happens and go before it actually happens. You will be very surprised when you come to realize that your 'one true love' left you after they suspected that you are going to be in trouble. An example is when you are about to get fired from your job. The second time you get the warning letter should be your count down to being single again. True love is rare, because how do you explain the person leaving immediately trouble presents it self yet they used to swear they loved you and they would never leave?

True love is rare no doubt about it but the few people who have experience it can tell you it is the most amazing thing that can ever happen to you. When you find someone that loves you truly instead of you testing him out every other day to see whether the person loves you or not go right ahead and enjoy it while it lasts.

Reasons Why Our love is the long lasting kind;
We’ve been together quite awhile.
I love you for so many things,
Your voice, your touch, your kiss, your smile. You accept me as I am;
I can relax and just be me.
Even when my quirks come out,
You think they’re cute; you let me be. With you, there’s nothing to resist;
You’re irresistible to me.
I’m drawn to you in total trust;
I give myself to you willingly. Your sweet devotion never fails;
You view me with a patient heart.
You love me, dear, no matter what.
You’ve been that way right from the start. Those are just a few reasons why
I’ll always love you like I do.
We’ll have a lifetime full of love,
And it will happen because of you. happy anniversary sayangku

The HISTORICAL Melaca

How blessed i was to have been to the historical state of Malaysia, named Melaca. Undeniably, im not a malaysian citizen who should have wealth of knowledge about this state, however, being an alien to this country didnt hinder me from acquiring knowledge about the place. its like knowing Melaca is knowing Malaysia. FYI, i had a good time touring all the historical spots of Melacca. I'm proud to have been there and will surely visit the place again in the near future. I LOVE MELACA!!!

So let me share with you some of the important information about Melacca.

It is a state in Malaysia which is located at the western coast of Peninsular Malaysia where the state of Melaka is actually sandwiched in between Negeri Sembilan and Johor. In addition to that, Melaka is actually closely situated alongside with the Straits of Melaka where this famous 500 mile long strait is actually, and still the world’s longest strait connecting the Indian Ocean and the China Sea. Based on the statistic in the year 2001, there are roughly 649000 people staying in this 1650 square kilometer state. Besides the state capital which is Melaka, there are another 4 main administrative districts here in Melaka where these 4 districts include Pulau Besar, Jasin, Melaka Tengah and Alor Gajah.

In the early days after Melaka was founded by an Islamic prince who left Sumatra, this small fishing village slowly developed into an important trading port in the region serving as a stopping point for traders from both China and India. During the time period where Melaka was emerging as an important port, it is said that Melaka and China has close diplomatic ties and thus as a result, the Melaka state we see today inherited some of the cultures from Mainland China. Some of these cultural inheritances such as temples or Chinese styled buildings can be seen lying at all around Melaka.

Nowadays, although Melaka is no longer used as an important port for trading purposes, this historical state is still retaining its reputation as an interesting tourist attraction here in Malaysia. There are hundreds and thousands of tourists coming into Melaka daily as Melaka is a very wonderful state in a historical sense. This is said in such as way because aside from the influence of China, Melaka has also inherited some of the cultures from the Portuguese and the British due to the fact where both of these countries were once the occupants of Melaka in the early days before the independence of Malaysia. Aside from all of these historical and cultural attractions, Melaka is also known as one of the food paradises here in Malaysia and of course, a wide array of cuisines can be found here in Melaka such as Nyonya food, Portuguese food and as well as local delicacies such as chicken rice and grilled fish.

Just like the whole of Malaysia, the climate here in Melaka is tropical climate where the weather is mostly sunny throughout the year. For travelers planning on a vacation, Melaka is for sure one of the best choices around and on top of that, there is no reason for not being able to visit Melaka as Melaka is fully accessible either by road or by air.

Hunter's singing competition Semi Finals

Some good things come in an unexpected time.it always happens to me. opportunities just come my way just when i never thought it would never knock on my door. last month was indeed my month. I got to visit my loved one in K.L, spent some time with him.after i got back, opportunities were in a wait for my grasp. catalogue modeling, job opportunity and the most exciting was the singing competition.

I went to one of the videoke bars in K.K named "The Hunters" to purposely release tension i felt after a slight quarrel with my sayang. A good friend of mine named Joffrey accompanied me to have some bottles of beer. Then singing came next. I sang and sang and sang all my favorite songs. Just when we decided to go back, a man approached me and asked me if im interested to join a singing competition. knowing my little ability in singing, i felt hesitant to say yes. but he and my good friend Jof tried so hard to convince me so i said YES. filling up the registration followed.

The competition was set the next evening. unprepared, i went for the competition for the 3rd heat. So many good singers joined, but luckily, i stood out among them. (im not bragging huh!hehheeh). two weeks after the semifinals was held. and fortunately i made it again to top 12. yehey!!!

with pride swelling in my heart, i would like to show you some of the pics i posted taken during the semi finals. hope you like 'em!!!

about grand finals? check it out anytime this week. but one thing for sure, i made it to top 3!!!God is good, thanks for the opportunity.

thanks my sayang for the warm support. i love you so much...

" A good thing with GEORGETING"

Somewhere in may this year, a friend approached me and offered a very rare opportunity. I must say, an opportunity that every one dreams to have. it was weird and hilarious on my part knowing that i dont have that so called "complete package" to do well in what she was trying to offer me. but since she kept on insisting, i gave it a green light.

well if you are eager to know what was that offer all about, with shame and pride mixed together, i share with you. heheheh. but ooops, just refer to my pictures above to know what is it im talking about. after all, i still beleive that a picture paints a thousand words...

I presume you have just looked at the above pics of mine. so now is the right time to give you the details. hehe. it was taken during my photo shoot with GEORGETING Fashion photography last june3 2008 inside hotel room. indeed it was my very first time to have a serious photo shoot with a veteran photorapher named George Ting. while in the shoot, i have experienced how hard it is to project before the camera. i had to project so much like a cowboy, as conceptualized by him. not an easy thing, indeed, and im so happy that i projected well.didnt i? heheh. atleast i satisfied his clamor for good shots..duhhhh!!!!heheheh. so guys, pls check out his website www.georgeting.com for more pics of me... the ones i got here are just try out pics. the best ones are with him and will be posted in his shop and website very soon.

Specially for you

I wrote this poem to express the ever lasting love I have for my baby. Amazingly, this is my very first time to feel how is it to be truly loved by the one i love the most. Nothing feels much better than being cared, understood and loved by my baby...sayangku, this is especially for you.

Let my love be like a diamond
That never fades
Its preciousness increases
The longer it stays
Let my love be like a diamond
That shimmers even in darkest hours
Even if its broken into pieces
It remains sparkling like a twinkling star
Let my love be like a diamond
That can hardly be found
That stays till the end of time